Tuesday, April 28, 2009

Three Ways to Be Irresistible to a Man

If you've wondered why you seem to click with some men but don't with others, it's probably because you're exhibiting certain behaviors that they find either attractive or repulsive. It's easy to get confused as to which attitudes work towards men, but there are three general, very successful ways to be attractive to any man you meet. And don't be surprised if you've never heard of these tips before, as they go against conventional dating wisdom.

Tip #1: Be the opposite of needy.

Most handsome, independent, outgoing men out there have had their share of needy women who tend to rush into the first relationship that comes their way. So if you want to be irresistible, don't be like most women they've met before. Don't be needy or clingy - after all, these men want to spend their time with a woman who's just about as independent as they are.

When you can show them that you can stand on your own two feet, it'll definitely put you miles ahead of the competition. A confident, strong, funny woman is a lot sexier to men than someone who's all hugs and kisses, and not much else.

Tip #2: Dare to be different.

A lot of the conventional dating wisdom you hear out there tell you to be polite, maintain eye contact, and laugh at every joke he says no matter how infuriatingly inane it might be. Believe me, following the rules can work for a time, but it can only get you so far. Men go for women who bring a refreshing change of scenery, and being different can make you "that" woman for them.

In addition, men would like to be part of the life of the woman they'll eventually settle down with. Do you have something in your life that he would like to be part of?

Tip #3: Try not to be predictable.

Being predictable is tantamount to being boring. If a man can guess how you're going to react, or what you're going to say next, then he'll get the idea that he's got you all figured out. And when he has you all figured out, you've just become a lot less engaging.

The best way to not be predictable is by being yourself, and by doing things differently. Flirt, tease, or make offhand jokes about his appearance or choice of words. You'll be surprised at how saying, "I can't stand you" with a well-placed wink can make him fall head-over-heels for you.

Find out how to create intense attraction with a man.

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